Talking Meme: Tokyo!
Jan. 31st, 2015 09:22 amran_dezvous asked about my reactions to Tokyo! I actually live about ninety minutes from Tokyo by bullet train, but my husband has family that lives there so I go there three or four times a year. Where I live now is a pretty big metropolitan area, but to understand my reactions to Tokyo you have to know that I grew up in a town of 4,000 people. We had one traffic light in my town (it was a blinking yellow light). I spent my childhood in a place where I could (and did) wander out of my house and into the woods to climb trees and follow the nearby brook along its path.
(my backyard, pretty much)
So when I first went to Meiji Shrine in Tokyo I asked my husband "Is there ever a point when it's not crowded?"
(It was like this).
And he looked around and laughed and said "THIS is when it's not crowded."
(This is when it's crowded!)
I've gotten more used to the crowds in Japan--like I said, we live in a big city, the third-biggest in Japan. But Tokyo's a totally different sort of thing. For starters, the sprawl is immense and seems to go on forever. You could drive for hours and still be in the Tokyo metropolitan area. And like any fairly old city, the streets tend to be narrow and winding and confusing. It's REALLY easy to get lost--Google maps has saved me so many times traveling around there.
I like Tokyo a lot! I have a lot of good memories, and some that may not be good but are certainly memorable. I visited the cutest cat cafe in the world there! I've had the best pho I could find in Japan there. My mother-in-law's ashes are interred there, in the family plot in the temple cemetery near where she grew up, and every year we go there and burn incense and leave flowers and listen to the crows call. When the big earthquake and tsunami happened, we were visiting Tokyo and had to walk for four hours across town to get back to our hotel; the streets were full of tired, worried people--women limping in high heels, parents carrying toddlers through the night. We've been line dancing at Little Texas, a country-western bar full of enthusiastic Japanese people in cowboy boots. It's a wonderful city to visit, and if you find yourself there, let me know and I'll take the train to meet you!