I got an anonymous request for either Clark or Bruce's (or Dick's, but that's so tied to Bruce's) story as I see it from start to present--that is to say, what do I pick and choose from different continuities and canons to make my Superman or Batman? This is a hard and interesting question! The simple cheating answer is that I change it depending on what I need for the story--the Kents are alive if that works better for the story, and dead if that works better. But I assume what the question is asking, roughly, is what is my Platonic Ideal of the storyline of the character.
( Lots of stitched-together canon below the cut! )
( Lots of stitched-together canon below the cut! )